I've had my family covered thru my employer for nearly 30 years. Currently paying nearly $4500/year, not including deductible. However, first $2,000 of deductible costs is covered by my employer. Haven't used it all yet.
I've read that this cost is similar to many countries, and yet the benefit here in the U.S. is service (both what can be done and speed at which it gets done). For example, my first son had open heart surgery at the age of 4. When it was determined he needed it, we were in and done in less than 4 weeks. Then my other son had knee surgery (ACL and meniscus) scheduled and done just 5 weeks after the injury.
Is it true that some other countries can wait much longer?