On Spot On, the Delta E is 4.0 for CMY (Gray).
On Curve3, I get a Delta E of 8.0 for CMY (Gray).
Looking back at it, I should have taken the sheet and measured the L*a*b* values within the P2P area with a handheld to verify the 3/C area.
The L*a*b* values for CMY on Curve3 are reading L*21.21 a*-7.52 b*1.76 and Spot On is reading L*24.2 a*-3.6 b*-1.2...This is the same CGATS file imported into both programs. I can send you the CGATS file but this threw me for a loupe. No one can really give me defined answer as to why the radical difference between how the two programs can differ that much, other than get into a pissing contest about who has the better program (from both manufacturers).